Thursday, September 25, 2008

How To Seduce A Sleeping Woman

The image “http://images.askmen.com/love/player_100/pictures_100/103_love_games.JPG” cannot be displayed, because it contains errors.
Light candles in the room
The flickering of candlelight might wake her calmly. It'll be a nice surprise for her when she does. Another alternative could be to turn on some night lights.

Digg this

Tips For Virgins - 5 Secret Techniques

http://media.ebaumsworld.com/picture/fknawesome/Virgins.png

If you are a virgin, it is entirely common for you to approach your first sexual experience with a measure of apprehension. You will have numerous questions running through your head: will I be any good? will she orgasm? will I bleed? will I maintain an erection. It can be a combination of your anxiety and lack of self-confidence that ensure your first sexual encounter will be a disaster. This article will share with you some very powerful sex tips for virgins. If you commit them to memory, I promise your first sexual outing will be more than successful, it will be an explosively enjoyable and perhaps life-changing experience.

Digg this

Good in Bed - Tips For Men

http://images.teamsugar.com/files/users/1/12981/38_2007/sex.jpg

Caress Her Body

Start off by giving her a nice neck massage. Then proceed to go down her triceps, to her forearms, and then gently squeeze her fist. Don't forget her legs. Massage her thighs, ankles, and then her foot. Get her muscles as relaxed as possible before you start making love with her.

Remove Her Clothing

If she's not naked by now, gently remove the top pieces of her clothing. Do this slowly and casually, but effectively. The last thing you want to do is be stuck for 5 minutes unraveling her bra (Trust me, I've done this before and it gets awkward, fast). So know what you're doing. Then proceed to unravel the lower pieces of her clothing.

Digg this

She Would Almost Scream & Cry With Pleasure!

http://i266.photobucket.com/albums/ii261/funkbutter/graphics/Friday/9_friday_orgasm.jpg
A lot of guys out there tend to complicate matters a lot when it comes to the matter of getting a woman to achieve an orgasm. You see getting a woman to climax is easier than you can even think possible. There are some proven powerful steps you can start taking right now which would instantly make her orgasm. Read on to discover what these powerful tricks are and achieve earth shattering results...

Digg this

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Breast Lifts

“Over time, a woman’s skin can lose its original elasticity,” says Board certified Denver Colorado Plastic Surgeon Dr. John Squires. “This, combined with the effects of gravity or pregnancy, can have a drastically change the shape of a woman’s breasts as she ages.”

The combination of a breast lift and breast augmentation eliminates the problems sagging or drooping breasts cause. A breast lift and breast augmentation procedure allows women to feel better about their appearance because they no longer have to think about how their breasts no longer look as good as they once did.

A breast lift reshapes and repositions a woman’s breast tissue so that the breasts are more firm, and do not droop. Breast augmentation places a breast implant behind the breast tissue to restore or enhance the size and shape of a woman’s breasts.

When combined, these procedures can transform a woman’s breasts so that she no longer has to suffer from the sagging or drooping that causes self-consciousness or embarrassment. A breast lift and breast augmentation can correct sagging or drooping, as well as increase size and firmness of a woman’s breasts.

There are many benefits of having a breast lift or breast augmentation surgery, but many women find that the boost in self-confidence is the greatest benefit of all. While a breast lift and breast augmentation procedure can improve a woman’s body contour, it can also make a woman more confident with her appearance.

After the breast lift and breast augmentation procedure, a woman’s breasts appear more youthful and vibrant. With their restored or enhanced breasts, women can wear the clothes they want to, and feel more confident about the way they look.

The confidence a breast lift and breast augmentation surgery provides women is often used as a stepping stone to other parts of life. Once a woman feels confident about her appearance, she can do many of the activities that she may have avoided due to her sagging breasts.

Digg this

Breast Enlargement 3 Things You Should Know

http://www.breastpillreviews.com/images/breasts-vert1.jpg

Breast Enlargement Supplements can help a woman build up self- esteem about herself. How? By enlarging her breast naturally which will make her feel more like a woman. Women with small breast feel as though they are still in training bras. Small breast can make a woman feel less than a woman. They are ashamed of their breast size therefore they wear padded bras, stuff tissue in their bras, do just about anything to make it look as if they have large breast.

Ladies today you will learn about Breast Enlargement Supplements. After reading this article I hope you understand exactly what it is that supplements can do to help you get the breast size you want. What you are about to read does not call for surgery nor will it cost you a arm and a leg.

Breast enlargement supplements is a natural way to enlarge your breast. It is safe and has no side effects that will harm your breast or your body. Here is the way breast supplements work.

1. Breast Enlargement Supplements are natural supplements, when used with the proper exercise program, exercise techniques and enhancement cream, will provide you those missing nutrients you are not getting when you do not eat right.

2. Enlargement Supplements are safe to use. The herbs that make up breast enlargement supplements has been in use for many years. Ingredients are consider safe according to the FDA. Supplements are made from real plants, not chemicals.

3. Breast Enlargement Supplements used with an exercise program can help you develop larger and firmer breast. Supplements will even help build up sagging breast and improve the health of your breast.

So, what have you learned? You have learned that Breast Enlargement Supplements are natural, they are safe, and when used with the proper exercise program breast enlargement supplements can and will enhance your breast naturally.

Digg this

7 Mistakes Most Men Make in Bed!


http://images.askmen.com/love/vanessa_60/pictures_60/99_love_secrets.JPG


1. Cut your finger nails!

This is such a simple little thing, but it goes a long way. You will be hard pressed to find any area on her body more sensitive than her vagina (inside and out), and the LAST thing you want to do is completely ruin the mood with a scratch. How do you know if your nails are cut short enough? Touch your gums with the tips of your fingers, how do they feel? If you're not sure, cut them. (If you're having daily sex with your partner, you might be cutting your fingernails as often as every 2-3 days.) But believe me, it's THAT important.

2. Listen and pay attention (in bed) in order to know her body.

This topic is so important, it needs its own post, but for now I will summarize. You need to figure out how she wants to be touched, which is pretty difficult to do if you don't have 100% of your concentration on her. Does she prefer her clit stroked from the side? up and down? circles? Are you sure? You should be. No matter what you're doing or how you're touching her, you have two main ways of figuring it out: First you can always ask, "did that feel good, or is that better?" This works great as long as you don't over do it. When you ask, your tone should be confident, you know what you're doing, you're just fine tuning. The second way is watching for those subtle clues. The flush of her skin, the way her mouth opens, her breathing (moaning), her fingers and toes are all good indicators of whether you're doing something right. During foreplay, try touching her one way for 30 seconds, then another way and see if you can spot the difference. This takes practice to learn, but it's well worth it.

3. Don't focus too much on intercourse, and not enough on oral or fingering.

Most men don't realize that there are ways that you can please your partner with your fingers (will discuss in future posts) that you can't even come close to with your penis.

If your fingers aren't involved 4 out of 5 times you're engaging in sex, then chances are you're not leaving her fully satisfied.

As far as oral, I don't think it's a big secret, but many men still don't realize that there's a huge difference for a woman between vaginal and clitoral orgasms. (Especially clitoral orgasms given with your mouth). Some women find clitoral orgasms more intense, others say that vaginal is the big full body orgasm. I find it best to give her both and cover all my bases.

4. More Lubrication Please!

There is nothing worse for a woman than when a guy takes a dry finger and drags it over her clit. The pain is very intense. So just remember this:

When touching a woman don't be afraid of Over-Lubricating.

This is one of those times when more is definitely better. And no you don't have to run out and buy the latest K-Y Jelly, the age old porn technique does the trick every time. Saliva is a fantastic lubricant for most common vagina-related sexual activities. If you are going to be having Anal sex then I really don't recommend saliva, as that might be the last time she will agree to anal :P .

5. Extend the foreplay.

Most women are not constantly lubricated. Just like men need to get hard, women need to get wet in order to enjoy sex. And even though you can shorten this step by applying rule #4, you are doing yourself and your partner a great disservice because, simply put:

The more intense the foreplay, the more intense her orgasms.

6. Consistent Rhythm is the KEY to her Orgasm!

One of the biggest mistakes men make as they try to bring a woman closer to orgasm is constant varying of the firmness and speed of their touch (, lick, or thrust). When a woman tells you that she is getting closer, keep doing what you're doing!

Do NOT start going faster, or harder unless she specifically asks you to.

This is such a simple concept and yet so many men out there just don't get it. Women need a rhythm in order to cum, think of it as playing a tune on a musical instrument, you generally stick to the same rhythm the entire song. If you keep switching up her rhythm you will be unpleasantly surprised as you both become frustrated by her inability to reach orgasm.

7. Orgasm second!

You usually want to make your partner cum (at least once) before you do. Why? Because its fun :-). It gives you that feeling of power and control. It makes you feel great about yourself... Actually if you have to ask why, you're in the wrong place. This rules applies doubly to any of you that are struggling to last longer in bed. Imagine what a great stress reliever it is, if before you ever put your penis inside of her, you've already made her cum twice with your fingers and once with your mouth ;-) You might be so relaxed, you might not even realize that you've conquered your issue. (And if you do cum too soon, no biggie, this was just the icing on the cake for her).

Digg this

3 Sex Games to Spice Up Your Love Life

Tried every position at least a thousand times? Tried every room in the house (and even some not in the house)? Well it may be time to spice up your love life and sex games are one of the best ways to do just that!

In this Article I'm going to give you the basics on some games that you and your lover may try and that will hopefully provide you with many unforgettable love making sessions.

Truth Or Dare

A Classic game that you may remember from your childhood, but this time it is the adults turn; start the ball rolling with a few truths about yours or your partners dirtiest sexual fantasies to get you both in the mood. From here the world is your oyster! The greatest thing about the adult version of this game compared to what you played as a youngster is you're never going to be scared of what you might have to put in your mouth!

Strip Poker

A game that is not only erotic by nature but also tests your skill and poker face. Start the game with a number of chips (I prefer to use 5) and an ante to be paid at the beginning of every hand (I use either 1 or 2) and when a player has no chips left they have to buy back their chips with an item of clothing.

Once one player has shed all of their clothing and loses again they must perform for their partner (I'll leave this bit up to your imagination).

Twister

Ever played twister? All those strange ways you had to move your body? Well try this twister for size; start fully clothed and with every spin an article of clothing is removed. Not hard enough? Try distracting your opponent during their turn by kissing, fondling or if you're too far away try giving them more than they bargained for with a quick flash of some flesh!

Digg this

Couples Intimacy


http://www.news.com.au/common/imagedata/0,,5591677,00.jpg


So, you've hit first base. You've probably hit second too. Now you know that eventually, in due time, you will hit home run. So the question is, are you ready for couples intimacy? Are you ready to get physical with your partner?

I remember when I was at that stage. I had sooo many doubts. I was just a beginner in this game. What did I know?

Well, all these doubts did not help the whole process. So one of the most important things when you reach couples intimacy, is knowing if you are ready. Second you have to know if you're partner is ready.

Are you insecure? Then you need to work on that too. Nothing kills couples intimacy more than insecurity. Confidence is key here. No regrets, after all you know that both of you are ready. If it is your first time, then it is normal that you have your doubts, Hey, its your FIRST time, so yu don't know what to expect.

Make sure, that when you are ready for couples intimacy, and the moment comes, that everything is right, you have made sure that everything is ready and n perfect place. No messy rooms, no dirty hair, take a shower. Light some candles if its necessary. You want the first time to be perfect, unforgettable, it will set the tone of further intimacy.

I hope that this will prepare you for what comes ahead. Remember it might be scary, but it is also great, it is one of the most intense moments in your relationship, take your time and enjoy it.

Digg this

Even When It's Not Good

http://blog.naughtycountryclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/03/onna-starr-1.gif

It could be because it's forbidden; maybe it's the nervous anticipation of being caught; maybe it's the freedom to say and do things that you wouldn't normally do with your spouse. For you, any one of these things could make affair sex wonderful.

For me, the combination of all three makes it the most amazing physical experience I've ever had. Even when it's not high quality sex - I'd take affair sex over sex with my husband any day. My last beau was absolutely horrible when it came to the actual act of sexual intercourse. I mean, he was really, really bad. He was small, kind of limp and he always went about it delicately.

Even so, when we were together, there were instant fireworks. I was always revved up before I even saw him, and nearly exploded the second we touched. He took his time kissing me and holding me. He would slowly take off my clothes, massage my back and neck and run his hands up and down every inch of my body. He talked... actually he talked a LOT which was a huge turn on for me. And he always concentrated on me and my needs.

Since he was so eager to please, I didn't hesitate to boss him around a little bit and I never felt a single twinge of guilt about just lying back and enjoying all of the physical attention he was paying to me. So, by the time we got around to the actual intercourse, I was usually already satisfied. I actually had fun pretending to enjoy it knowing full well that the louder I moaned and the bigger the smile on my face, the more (and the faster) he'd enjoy it.

Digg this

Monday, September 22, 2008

The Romantic StripTease

http://img.metro.co.uk/i/pix/2007/05/schoolgirls2_450x350.jpg

Have you ever fantasized about being a stripper? Have you ever thought it would be cool to do a striptease for your lover? Well, guess what? You're not alone!

Truth be told, many women have this same fantasy. Many more have even "busted a move" for their lover. Sound like fun? It sure is! Plus, the Romantic Striptease is an awesome way to show your lover just how sexy you're feeling. And take it from me, he will agree with you 100%.

Of course anytime you remove your own clothes in front of your lover there's sure to be "fireworks". But lets do something special. Let's treat your lover, let's plan an actual Romantic Striptease.

So, what's needed to make the Romantic Striptease a success? Let's have a look.

First and foremost, as memtion in my book "the Romantic Tips Guide" you do not have to be a professional dancer to do this. It's all about having fun and spending some quality time with each other.

Next, is music selection. Keep in mind you and your partners taste. The music you choose needs to be a bit on the slow side. Not too slow and draggy, but slow enough so you will be able to take your time removing your clothes one piece at a time and really Tease.

Speaking of clothing, you'll have to plan what to wear. And, you won't need to go shopping either. Well...not unless you want to. ;-) It is best to start off fully dressed. After all it is called a "Strip TEASE". Removing layers is much more fun, and exciting. A sexy dress, or blouse and skirt, choose an outfit that always turns your partner on. You know, the one where he just can't keep his hands off you. Then for underneath that, choose a couple more things. A pretty camisole, over a sexy bra. On the bottom put a pair of sexy skimpy panties over a pair of thongs. Eventually you'll be removing it all, one piece at a time. Remember, anything that drive's your sweetie wild, and whatever makes you feel sexy and desirable is in order here. You can pretty much choose whatever's in your closet for the outer layer. A good, "naughty" choice is always the schoolgirl look, or you could go for the button-down business look. A tie would later make a great prop. Just think about looping it behind his head to pull him into your breasts.

Then accessorize. This includes anything like glasses, hats, ties, as well as the all-important thigh highs, (or garter belt and stockings) and stiletto heels. Just make sure you can actually move around and dance in those stilettos. If you don't have any in your closet, borrow a pair from a friend. Also long necklaces look amazing when you're down to the bare essentials, plus long gloves and feather boas are great accessories too.

Place a chair some where in your bedroom where you will have easy access to move all around it. Of course it's for your sweetie to sit on and watch as you dazzle him with your StripTease. Also, chill some of your lover's favorite beverage. Wine or champagne would be great. You could have some fresh fruit like strawberries or grapes to feed your lover as you dance up a storm. Just remember to take it slow and easy.

Digg this

Exercises for Better Sex


http://yoga.lovetoknow.com/images/Yoga/thumb/8/88/Better_Sex_through_Yoga.jpg/300px-Better_Sex_through_Yoga.jpg


Sex is a physical activity so naturally getting and keeping fit will greatly improve your love-making skills. Here are some exercises for better sex.

The pubococcygeal (PC) muscles

The muscles you use to stop urinating midstream are called the pubococcygeal (PC) muscles. If you're male they’re also the muscles that contract when you ejaculate. You can learn to build control over them and prolong ejaculation by doing an exercise called a Kegel. Start by doing a short clench of your PC muscles, relax, and then try to do a longer clench for about 10 to 15 seconds. Repeat ten times, at least three times a day. The more you do the better control you will have.

Kegel exercises are good for women to do as well. By practicing them you will have more control over your vaginal muscles. You'll get more sexual satisfaction and a reduced chance of vaginal infections.

Pelvic lifts

Lie down on your back with your knees bent and your hands by your side. Lift your pelvis up and down as if you were having sexual intercourse. This is a great exercise for the doggy-style position. It's also my favorite exercise for better sex.

Push-ups

Lie down on your stomach with your hands parallel to your shoulders. Push up with your hands until your arms are straight and your chest and knees are off the ground. Then lower your body so it almost touches the ground. Repeat ten to twenty times.

Crunches

Lie down on your back with your knees bent. Cross your feet together and lift them off the ground so that they are parallel to the floor. With your hands on the back of your head or crossed against your chest lift your chest off the ground using your stomach. Be sure to focus on a spot on the ceiling to avoid straining your neck. Do three sets of twenty each.

Slides

Lie down on your back with your knees bent. Place your hands on the top of your thighs and slide them to the top of your knees, lifting your chest off the ground and using your stomach muscles. Slide your hands back down to your thighs. Do three sets of twenty each. Again, be sure to focus on a spot on the ceiling to avoid straining your neck

Prayers

Lie down on your back with your knees bent and legs apart. With your hands in a prayer position push them through your legs, lifting your chest off the ground and using your stomach muscles. Do three sets of twenty each.

Do push-ups and stomach exercises to strengthen your shoulder, back and abdominal muscles. You won’t tire as easy when you’re making love.

Digg this

Self-Pleasure Tips for Women ~ Using Your Hands and Fingers

Our hands and fingertips contain a lot of nerve-endings rendering them very handy (pun intended) for self-pleasure purposes. Therefore, it makes sense to include the use of our hands and fingers as one of the most effective self-pleasure tips for women.

A self-pleasure tip for women using your hands and fingers involves running your hands all over your body. Feel the smoothness and silkiness of your own skin. You may scrape your nails lightly over several places. Massage and caress yourself all over and be aware of how the said parts of your body, as well as your hands and fingers, feel as you do so.

Next self-pleasure tip for women: Venture into your own erogenous zones. Run your fingertips over your neck, your inner thighs, your inner arms, your palms, and finally, your breasts and that triangle between your thighs. Caress your breasts. You may want to do all these while looking at yourself in the mirror. Massage your breasts in a circular motion with the flat side of your palms. Feel the tingling sensation in your palms as you do so. Much like the striptease acts that you see in erotic movies, pull on your nipples and twirl them between your fingers. Notice how at certain points of this motion, there seem to be a single thread connecting the middle of your palms, the middle of your feet, your nipples and your clitoris. This will produce a-wetness between your thighs.

Finally, the final act in your regimen of self-pleasure tips for women: Touch yourself. Discover where your clitoris is. As you well know, your clitoris is the seat of all sexual pleasure. Rub your fingers and the flat of your palms in your most sensitive places. Massage your clitoris. Wet your fingers with your mouth and put your fingers inside you one by one that is, as many of them as you can take in at once. Then, go nuts!

Digg this

Self-Pleasure Tips for Women

http://www.dogsex.es/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/1.jpg

As is often said, your mind is the most erotic of all organs. Men are said to be visual creatures who get excited at the sight of a pair of limbs, bare skin, or whatever it is that they consider sexy. Women, on the other hand, are said to need creative stimulation for sexual arousal. Thus, following this argument, I would say that indulging in sexual fantasies is one of the soundest self-pleasure tips for women.

To get you in the mood for self-pleasure, set the mood by arranging the time and place in which you’ll do it. Put another way, make a date with yourself. Make sure that you are alone or will be undisturbed for this date. That is, unless you get excited by the prospect of imminent discovery. Part of getting to know yourself as a self-pleasure tip for women is in knowing what excites your imagination.

Here’s a self-pleasure tip for women who get sexually aroused by visual stimulation: Try watching an erotic. Nothing is stopping you from renting erotic films from your local video shop if the mood strikes you. Some women, like myself, get excited by certain films, even after having watched them millions of times. I always find myself panting with excitement every time I watch Marlon Brando in A Streetcar Named Desire. Man, Brando was the most beautiful man I’ve ever seen. I consider the scene where he screams: ‘Hey, Steeeeelllllaaaaahhhhh!!!’ the sexiest movie scene of all time. So, just keep watching a lot of films. If you have homemade videos of yourself doing it with your lover, even better. You might want to replay it to yourself and recapture the magic.

Another self-pleasure tip for women: Read erotic literature to yourself. Try out words and how they feel as they roll away from your tongue. I believe that there are certain words lush with libidinous possibilities. For example, for me, the word ‘lush’ is very sexy. Again, what is ‘erotic’ varies for women. Try out all types of literature to know which author excites you. The standard fare here would be Henry Miller, Anais Nin, Marquis de Zane and D. H. Lawrence. For me, Tom Robbins and Erica Jong are key writers to look up. Indulge your fantasies. Roam the inner recesses of your mind. As the cliché goes, only in our imaginations can we be truly free.

Digg this

The Top Ten Secrets for Sex


SEX

Clearly there are no rules, only what lovers have known since Antony and Cleopatra: "Pay attention, be kind, and be loving". But the following Top Ten List might be a useful reminder! Enjoy!

1. Guys: Great sex starts in the kitchen! Wash the dishes, take out the trash, give her a break, let her know she's appreciated. Romance and exhaustion do not mix -- think about it! (Besides, standing there, side by side, washing and drying those dishes, hands could get to roamin' and motors could get to tickin' ...the most amazing things do happen!)

2. Gals: Tell that old fool just exactly what you've been waiting for! Most males are notoriously poor mind readers, they just don't "get it". So tell him! "A little softer" or "let me show you" goes much further than, "How come you never know what I want?"

3. Guys: Take time! Sex is about fun, relaxation, laughter and love -- this is not a competition or a 50-yard dash to the finish line! Start slow, let it build, then finish strong. A glass of wine, maybe some music, a backrub, even a few minutes of silence can shift the mood and make things verrrry interesting!!

4. Gals: Make Time! How often does sex happen last thing at night, with two exhausted people trying to find each other in the dark? Or, first thing in the morning, half asleep, with bad breath? If sex is important, why not treat it like getting your haircut or picking the kids up after school? In other words, schedule time, put it on the calendar and treat it as a key part of keeping yourself and the family running smoothly.

5. Guys: Think about your 4th date with the woman you love, after you were well acquainted but everything still felt new and exciting. Remember thinking about it, scheduling it, making dinner reservations? Remember being on time? Did you bring flowers, maybe plan something romantic or special? Remember taking a shower and using cologne? Well, guess what -- she's still special and she's still waiting!

6. Gals: If you want great sex, seduce him! This is not rocket science! Most guys are sooooo easy. They're "visual" -- show him what he likes. They're easily flattered -- whisper what he wants to hear. Touch him right there, or if you prefer, right THERE!!! Tease him, just don't be a tease.

7. Guys: Surprise her. Women love that. And, the beauty is, almost anything will work. Surprise her with flowers, with a card, get a baby-sitter for the evening, put a note on the windshield of her car. Even surprise her by cleaning the bathroom! Almost anything will work, just be kind, be gentle, and put a little thought into it.

8. Gals: With all the talk about "size", remember that a man's biggest sex organ is his imagination -- so use your own! Everyone has fantasies -- some romantic, some kinky, maybe even a few that are slightly dangerous or outrageous. What are yours? And, what are his? Why not play dress-up? Why not go on a date with someone "new"?

9. Guys: I just told the gals you have a great imagination -- don't make me a liar! Use it! How long has it been since you had sex in the back seat of a Ford? Would she enjoy a date with a spy? Being seduced by a plumber or "the cable guy"? Is your shower big enough for two? Ever done it at the office -- how about her office?

10. Gals: Take time to add variety and spice with tasteful magazines, toys, movies and beautiful lingerie. For most people (including men) pornography quickly turns into a turn-off, but a little satin and lace, maybe some sensual pictures or using common household items in a whole new way can sure add delight to the old routine. Explore, experiment, lock the bedroom door and play some brand new games! As they say, "Just do it!"

Digg this

Are You Good in Bed?


http://www.flypaperblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/couple-bed-laugh-kiss-300-051407.jpg

You want to be the ONLY one that your partner longs for and desires, loves, and wants in bed? Oh yes...
What if you were good in bed, oh no, absolutely fantastic in bed? Is there a way you can achieve that? absolutely yes!
It's time for you to get free from in-bed anxieties and insecurities.

I know some of you are very reluctant to try new stuff, or too shy or ashamed to even talk about this with your partner, but if you really want your RELATIONSHIP TO WORK, and WORK ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUSLY, YOU NEED TO TAKE A STEP, RIGHT NOW!!

* Try different positions!
* Try eating the right food for harder erection (if you are a guy, of course)
* Lighting and music DO matter!
* Talk sexy!
* Touch in the most effective manner!
* Communicate with your partner

UGH! SO SIMPLE, yet DIFFICULT, if you do not know how. But trust me, these will get you two back into where you used to be. When there were butterflies and sparks! Make your partner long for you! Make him or her want it more and more..I am here to help you and guide you to achieve an improved love life.

Promise me that you will do as i say, then i guarantee you a successful relationship and very satisfying sex.

SEDUCE them! Make them come to YOU!
Now, your worries are over, just do as i tell you, step by step, and do make sure you do them all to keep an exciting sex life with your loved ones.

Digg this

Swinging Lifestyle


http://media.kansan.com/img/photos/2007/09/21/Swingers.jpg


The term Swinging, also referred to in North America as the Swinging Lifestyle, has been used in many ways. The most commonly accepted interpretation refers to recreational social sex that takes place between consenting adults, with someone other than your mate by mutual agreement, usually in a social setting with other swingers. Although it is an activity that is experienced primarily by committed couples, single men and women can also be involved. Most couples will tell you it's simply about being open with your sexual feelings and being adventurous about it!

The swinger's lifestyle is exceptionally unique, incredibly sexy and very diverse. Some couples are completely open and love anything and everything thrown their way, while others enjoy taking it slow and enjoy smaller more intimate encounters. Most swingers live very ordinary lives as doctors, lawyers, teachers and mothers. However, once the weekends roll around they are ready to let loose. Whether it be going to a swingers club, attending a private house party, or just having some friends over, they are ready to make the best of the evening.

Because the Swinging Lifestyle provides the environment for a woman to openly be herself and show sexual and social assertiveness without fear, the increasing number of women choosing to participate in swinging during the past few years is extraordinary. Recent statistics show that about 20% of the American married population are swinging couples. Swinging is simply another belief system that more people are gradually opening up to. In an online survey conducted by a major online dating portal, over half of the more than 3000 respondents said that they would be willing to try swinging under the right circumstances.

Digg this

Seduction Tips For Shy Men


The image “http://www.glamour.com/images/sexmen/2007/04/sesl16_moviesex.jpg” cannot be displayed, because it contains errors.


I always find it amazing how much BAD advice and sub par seduction tips there are out there for shy men. Did you know that MOST women actually find shyness and sensitivity a VERY sexy quality? It's true....and just about every survey of women's magazines, day time talk shows and my very own readers and friends bares this very fact out! The simple truth is that, ESPECIALLY as we pass high school and college age, women REALLY crave the attention and affection of men who are INTROSPECTIVE rather than brash loudmouths..:-)

So you're a bit shy and having trouble with the seduction routine, right? Stop sweating it and listening to BAD advice! A beautiful woman WANTS a man who is slow, deliberate and COMFORTABLE in his own skin....and that means instead of trying in vain to be something (or someone!) that you are not...simply embrace the intimacy of your own sexy persona. ( shy or not)

I'm going to give you a secret that MOST men selling pick up guides simply do NOT know. There is NOTHING more trite and turn offish than just about every pick up technique these guides teach - you and I BOTH know that in every bar, nightclub and restaurant around the world there are guys getting turned down left and right with the same tired lines!

What women find seductively magnetic is witnessing the passion and desire of a shy guy bubbling to the surface in a moment of intimate erotic energy..:-) There is an anticipation...a build up and an amazing tension that arises with this experience that you simply will NEVER get from a man who never stops talking..:-)

Digg this

3 Personality Traits That Women Find Attractive


http://www.flirting-dating-men.com/images/Woman-with-Seductive-Look_talking_dirty.jpg

Too many men believe that they are not good looking enough to attract and sleep with women. Of course this is not the case. At first glance, it might seem that women want a good looking guy and to be honest, that would make it easier. However, it is such a low percentage of the population that have such high quality good looks that most men would never get action if that were true.

I have compiled a list for you of other considerations and other things that you need to know.

1. Confidence

Whenever you talk to a woman, do so with absolute confidence. No matter what happens, you must across as calm and collected. In addition, it is useful if you come off as the leader. I have always said, and I always will, that we do not just give it away. YOU must seduce us, it probably will not work the other way around.

2. Talk to other Women.

It's a simple truth... Women are attracted to guys who are desired by other women. You can use their competitive nature to make them attracted to you. So if you're working the room, try talking to a bunch of different women. Eventually you'll have a few girls who are competing for your attention.

3. Try not to be too serious.

The "strong-silent" type of guy still attracts women. When you're talking to a woman, don't say too much. Let her carry the conversation. In addition, don't talk about serious things like work, school or family. Instead behave with a strong flirting manner and talk about fun topics.

Digg this

Great and Funny Sex Facts


http://www.fun-on.com/img/sex_couple.jpg


There are some crazy funny sex facts out there, some of them are really hilarious. For example, did you know that during the world war 2, the condoms that were there were used to cover the rifle barrels so that they could not get damaged. Apparently, the salt water could damage the rifle barrels and the only way to be sure that they got across the river safely as the soldiers swam by was by rapping them with condoms. That is very funny. It was also found that thirty years ago,the sperm count of the average American was higher than what it is right now. Doesn't science just make you wonder? And that in India, a condom is too expensive and it is being compared with prostitution. According to some people, it is more expensive to buy a condom than to sleep with a prostitute! That is a sick one.

If you are feeling any kind of pain, the best medicine you can give yourself is sex. They even go further ahead and say that sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. During orgasm in women, endorphins is produced. This is a very good pain killer. Some more funny sex facts for you, if you want to loose weight, relax on going to the gym. Get yourself a good person and have a lot of sex. Sex is known to burn about three hundred calories in an hour. So for every sex you have for an hour you can count the number of calories you are loosing. In some of the states in the united state of America, if your man is impotent, you can file for a divorce and win the case. You no longer have to stick with an impotent person just because you are married.

Did you also know that condoms were made out of linen and they were used in the early 1500's. This people knew right from those years that they needed to protect themselves. The women are the ones who used this linen condoms. They however used the linen condoms to protect themselves from unwanted pregnancies and not necessarily diseases. Having sex according to some researchers is also good for skin. They say the during sex, women produce a hormone known as estrogen in large quantities that helps in making their skin and hair look good. There was a scientific test done on this test people, you had better believe it, those are some funny sex facts to wonder about.

When you make love in a gentle manner, you decrease chances of getting some skin conditions. Did you also know that people who make love frequently attract a lot of people of the opposite sex? This is because, people who have sex often give out a chemical known as pheromones which is basically a sex perfume. There are a lot of funny sex facts around that are true, though they are funny and you might not want to believe them they are true. Next time you have sex, think of the many things you could preventing yourself from or you could be curing yourself from and enjoy the act.

Digg this

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Get Bigger Breast


http://images12.fotki.com/v243/photos/1/184161/890285/Hypno_Breasts_web-vi.jpg

Magazines, movies and advertisements gave people an idea that big breasted women are adorable and sexy. Probably this is one of the reasons why women with small breast feel bad about their appearances and they feel unattractive. Breast enhancement surgery is the most common cosmetic surgery performed by cosmetic plastic surgeons now. Although there are success stories about breast surgery, there are women who still prefer to enhance breast size naturally.

Smaller breast makes you feel embarrassed and you do not have the confidence to wear sexy clothes with plunging necklines and swim suit. You are afraid that men and other women will make fun of your flat chest. Maybe you even use padded and push-up bras to make your breast appear larger because you are not open to the idea of breast enhancement surgery and you still want to enhance breast size naturally. While padded and push-up bras could work at some occasions to make your breast look larger, still it is frustrating to know that in reality you still have small size breasts.

Herbal breast enhancement pills are another alternative to enhance breast size naturally. This herbal breast enhancement treatment is gaining popularity now because it is a safer and cheaper alternative to breast enhancement surgery.

Getting your desired breast size will end your embarrassment and will boost your self-esteem. You do not have to wear the same boring clothes again and you do not have to be afraid or embarrassed to wear your swim suit. You will be happier and confident with your body.

Digg this

Foods to Be Taken During Menopause

http://www.mylifetime.com/files/imagecache/photo_gallery_featured/files/images/menopause.jpg'


What foods can help

There is no miracle cure for menopause. It is a fact of life. All women that live long enough will indeed go through menopause. There are some foods that can help to minimize the effects of the symptoms. Foods to be taken During Menopause-The healthier the better

When women work a certain age, their bodies go through certain changes. Each woman reacts to the changes differently. However, it is true; eating certain foods can help your body deal with these changes easier.

What foods can help

There is no miracle cure for menopause. It is a fact of life. All women that live long enough will indeed go through menopause. The question should not be how to avoid menopause but rather what ways are there for you to go through menopause with the least disturbance to your life?

There are some medications and some other methods available to help cope with the changes your body is going through. The side effects or symptoms of menopause can be down right scary for both the person going through it and the people that are in their lives. So what exactly can one do to minimize the symptoms of menopause? One of the easiest and most effective remedies or relievers for the symptoms of menopause is not a drug or some miracle cure. It is something we all do everyday to survive. Well sort of.

There are some foods that can help to minimize the effects of the symptoms. As crazy as that sounds, it is absolutely true. Eating more natural foods and less of the processed foods available can greatly reduce the effects of menopause. The insomnia and hot flashes, the nausea and the mood swings are actually made worse by the ingredients in processed foods.

First and foremost, make sure you increase your intake of natural foods. I do not mean completely avoid eating things that are not 100% natural but rather limit your processed foods. Also increasing your fruits and vegetables will also help your body process the changes it is going through faster and smoother.

Eating foods that are processed can put added emotional stress on a woman whose body does not need any more stress at all. The ingredients that are a part of the processing process do not mix well with the changes your body goes through during menopause.

Digg this

Have my Breasts Stopped Growing?

The thing about breast growth is you never know what they will do. Your breast will continue to grow until the age of 21, and may change in size throughout your life. How big your breast will be, is unknown. You can look at your mother and sisters, and get a general idea of the size your breast will be, but there is no way to know for sure.

The good new is that many girls breast don't hit a growth spurt until around 16 or 17, so yours may be on the way. Don't worry too much; your breast will probably gain in size soon.

What if my breast doesn’t grow any bigger? Small breast are not a bad quality, in fact many girls (and guys), prefer small to medium size breast. There are many advantages in having small breast. With smaller breast comes increased mobility, less chance of back problems, and many other positives.
But don’t give up yet, given time your breast may grow to a size that you can be proud of. Learning to love what you have can be difficult, but that is the best advice there is.

Digg this

How to Drive a Woman Absolutely Wild in Bed


http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2134/2453030629_1688f4abb3.jpg?v=0


Do you know that you can easily drive a woman absolutely wild using simple words? Do you know that you can get the kind of results you desire out of a woman in bed and give her multiple orgasms one after the other? You see there are some secret techniques and ways using which you can easily pleasure a woman to the extreme and make her treat you like an absolute sex god. Read on to discover what these ways are and achieve earth shattering results within no time..........

Make her feel needed- In order to completely turn her on you need to make her feel needed and wanted in bed and the best possible way to do this is to tell her how much you want her in bed. Try and use her name as much as possible as this will instantly trigger the right emotional points and before you know it she will tell you she is getting turned on.

Look directly into her eyes- Stare right into her eyes longer than you would normally do and tell her that her eyes are totally mesmerizing you. You see when you compliment her on her body parts she would show greater response since we all like to feel good about ourselves and the more we feel good about ourselves the better we feel.

Caress her gently behind the neck- Now this one is a killer which works almost every single time if you do it right. If there is one trigger point a woman has which can totally drive her wild it's the back of her neck. Gently put your palm on the back of her neck and slowly caress. This is known to be one of the best techniques to really drive her wild instantly.

Digg this

Simple Seduction - How to Seduce a Woman Fast

Let's take a quick look at simple seduction moves you can really use! If you are a man who is desperately trying to amp UP his game with beautiful women, you are undoubtedly sick and tired of reading the same old tired advice from other MEN, right? I mean...unless you've actually SEEN them in action, what good is taking the advice of some other guy who may be having just as much luck as you? Exactly..:-) Let's take a quick look at some common questions I get all the time, and see how they can help YOU make your move THIS weekend! Read on..:-)

Q: What is the QUICKEST Way to Seduce a Beautiful Woman?

A: It DEPENDS on the woman! Don't let anyone tell you differently, either. All women have different triggers and touch points...and the POWER of a phenomenal lover and man who gets what he wants is the ability to DISCERN what kind of woman she is..:-) Which is why I ALWAYS recommend that men simply step back and slow down when approaching a woman, get to know her triggers FIRST, and then move in for the finale!

Q: Ok....What Works BEST?

A: Be Interested! Even before INTERESTING! The truth is a woman finds the intimacy of a close conversation foreplay to a phenomenal sexual experience..:-) If you can establish easy and erotic conversational intimacy in a bar, a restaurant, in a library or a supermarket....it is a PHENOMENAL turn on for just about every girl I know. Most men skip right over this and think that simply impressing her with YOUR accomplishments is the way to go....it's not. Trust me on this one..:-) Interested is VERY sexy!

Q: Anything else I should Know?

A: Lots! Far more than I can cover here, obviously! But ambiance is VERY important as well. Women find environment, circumstance and SETTING very sexy...create an erotic atmosphere of warmth and erotic energy and you WILL be a magnificent master of seduction in NO time, I promise!

Digg this

3 Things Women Can't Stand in Bed


http://store.payloadz.com/img/products/str-asp-n.The_REAL_Untold_Guide_On_Getting_Hot_Women_Into_Bed_eBooks_Self_Help_-end-101432_detail.jpg


Giving your partner the maximum pleasure possible in bed is all about doing the right things at the right time. It's always better to look at various things from your partner's perspective in order to get maximum results in bed. This is the reason why a lot of men feel they are doing the right thing but often they always are in the process of doing things they aren't supposed to be doing. This is the major reason why you must know this at all costs. Read on to discover things women simply can not stand in bed........

Trying to force her into having sex when she isn't in the right mood- It's all about the right mood when it comes to the matter of sex. Not only would she not enjoy it one bit but she might also get totally turned off if you try to ask her for sex when she is simply not in the right state of mind for it. You should always make sure that the moment is right in order to have sex.

Maintain personal hygiene- This is the most important factor which a lot of women consider in bed. You must maintain strict personal hygiene and should take a shower before getting into bed. One thing no woman can stand is a sweaty smelly man in bed. This is known to be one of the biggest passion killers out there.

Trying to do it too fast- Women are slow creatures specially in the case of sex therefore you must ensure that you take it slow and smooth otherwise there would be no passion at all and she would feel like you are just trying to pleasure yourself and you don't care about her needs.

Digg this

3 Most Important Things You Must Do in Bed


The image “http://img.thesun.co.uk/multimedia/archive/00402/deidresplashpic_402919a.jpg” cannot be displayed, because it contains errors.

Do you know that a lot of women out there are just not able to orgasm during sex? You see the reason is not her it's actually her partner. A lot of men out there just don't know the effective ways to make her orgasm. Most men lack sexual knowledge and the essential skill one must have in order to satisfy a woman in bed. This is the major reason why a lot of women end up faking their orgasms in bed. Read on to discover some of the most important things you must do in bed in order to make her orgasm...

Help her relax- Do you know that a lot of women out there are very conscious about their body and often get highly uncomfortable in bed? You see this is the reason why it's your job to make her comfortable in bed and really get her to settle down. A woman will never orgasm unless she is completely relaxed and one of the best ways to relax her is to give her a slight oil massage.

Punch in a lot of emotions and feelings- The more emotions and feelings you involve in the whole deal the more turned on she would be and the greater her levels of satisfaction would be. You see when it comes to women and sex it's always about how well you connect with them on an emotional level therefore make sure you show a lot of feelings and emotions in bed.

Don't make it a boring routine- This is one thing a lot of guys out there tend to do. They end up doing the same thing over and over again so much that after a while it seems like it's more of a routine than anything else. You should always give her the gift of variety in bed where you add something new to it every single time.

Digg this

Friday, May 16, 2008

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

5 Surefire Ways to Arouse Your Woman

http://www.shaaditimes.com/images-article/2008/mar/reasons-unfaithful-women.jpg

As there are different types of women, there are different ways to arouse them as well. If you have been in a bit of a slump here are some quick ways to rev up your love life:

1) Dress in a suit and take her out to a romantic dinner. Women love men in suits and almost every man looks good in one. The soft candle light of a romantic restaurant combined with a good wine will put her in the mood to get closer, as well.

2) Work out together. Workouts release pheromones that heighten attraction between couples. Get sweaty together then clean up with some dirty fun in the shower.

3) Take a bath together. Fill the tub with some scented oils or bath salts and toss in some rose petals. Play romantic music and light some candles. She will feel pampered and grateful. Let her relax for a few minutes then slip in with her. There is plenty of opportunity for sexy contact while you clean each other.

4) Roleplay can keep your relationship and sex life reved up for years.

Ex. My boyfriend will dress up like a handyman and really get into the act with accent and tools. He comes over and offers to lend a helping hand around the house. He offers a truly helping hand and I tip him extremely well.

5) Practice erotic massage. Either take a class together or get a video or book and practice on each other. This is a great way to get both of you relaxed and heated up.

Digg this

Saturday, May 10, 2008

How do you know a man really loves you?

The eyes are the window of the soul. That's NO LIE!

* If you find him smiling at you when he doesn't think you're looking.
* If he holds your hand and doesn't matter where you are when doing so.
* If friends tease him about being attentive towards you and he's confident he'll smile and be proud of the fact.
* If he looks proud when he introduces you to his family and other friends.
* If he keeps dates with you or at least phones if he can't make a date.
* If he does sweet little things for you. It's the little things that count and not expensive gifts or expensive places that count.

Those are but a few things. If he loves you, you'll know!!!.

Digg this

What is the love?

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."

Digg this

Mother Day Gift

http://www.thevillagevintner.com/upload/ALGONQUIN/labels/Happy_Mothers_Day.jpg

Best thing would be do all the household chores and cooking yourself and let her enjoy the day and relax her tired muscles or if you have some money then take her to a spa.

Digg this

Why people go for extra marital relationship after marriage?

http://www.buzzle.com/img/articleImages/55113-55med.jpg

There are literally 1,000's of reasons or more for this question. It all depends on the couple. A lot of times I think it is that things change after you have been with someone for a while and you want that feeling back that you had in the beginning so you go and try to recreate it with another person. People could go a long way to prevent that from happening in their relationships but it takes both people respecting and truly loving each other and hard work. Sadly, a lot of people don't know what hard work is anymore so they don't try and they end up looking elsewhere and are only doomed to repeat the cycle.

Digg this

Should Marriage Expire After Seven Years?

If the notorious seven-year itch exists, wouldn't it be more efficient to end marriages before they end themselves? That's what one Bavarian politician is suggesting. Gabriele Pauli says that, at the seven-year mark, couples should either agree to extend their marriage or the marriage should automatically dissolve.

While I definitely don't condone the idea of couples breaking up every seven years--think of the children!--I do like the idea of couples renewing their vows every seven years (i.e. consciously agreeing to extend their marriage, as she puts it). Standing up in front of a witness or several, looking each other in the eye and reiterating your commitment to one another can resurface the way you felt about one another when you recited your vows the first time... and sometimes couples just need to remember what brought them together in the first place.

What do you think about this woman's idea? Have you renewed your vows?

Digg this

Monday, May 5, 2008

A Training Bra

A training bra is designed for young girls who have begun to develop breasts but who don’t yet fit into women’s bra sizes. Normal sizes of the training bra usually range from AAA to A cups. Once a girl can wear a B cup, she can usually find a bra in sizes. It should be noted in all sizes besides the A cup, double letters means that it is a larger cup size. For instance, DD is bigger than D, but AAA or AA bra cups are smaller than A cups.

When to wear or purchase a first training bra is highly variable. Some girls may develop breasts as early as eight, and others may be well into their teens. Many girls don’t feel it necessary to ever wear a training bra, but others look forward to getting their first training bra as a rite of passage and a sign of maturity.

Although when a girl first begins to develop she may not need a great deal of support, a training bra may still be helpful during exercise to prevent chafing. It also provides an extra layer of fabric between clothing and the breasts, which is a bit more modest. Many girls are are perfectly happy wearing undershirts or camisoles.

Most types of training bra are quite simple in design and many of them are made in stretch cotton fabrics. The training bra does not usually feature anunderwire, since minimal support is needed and is usually accomplished merely by wearing stretchy fabric. The training bra style may feature a little bit of trim or be made in satin, but cotton seems the more popular choice. White or beige colors are most common, though you can find a few in dark colors.

raining bra sizes are not always uniform. Some bras fit smaller or larger than other brands, so skillful measurement is important. In order to find the appropriate fit, you need to take two measurements. The first is a measurement directly under the breasts at the rib cage, and around the body. The second measurement is of the breasts themselves, at their largest point, around the body. Usually, there is a number differential between the breasts and the rib cage.

If this number is between 0-.5 inches (1.27 cm), then an AAA training bra cup may be appropriate. An inch (2.54 cm) difference suggests an AA cup, and a 2 inch (5.08 cm) difference suggests an A cup. Some training bra styles don’t feature cup sizes, but instead are only measured by circumference of the rib cage and back below the breasts. The cups of these bras are normally flat but have a little bit of give so that a slightly larger breast receives a small amount of support. You may have to try on several styles before finding the one most comfortable.

To confuse matters, every now and again you may see athletic bras marketed as training bras. These are normally called sports bras instead. Generally the training bra is found in the girls department of retail stores, though occasionally one needs to look in the lingerie section of the store instead.

Digg this

Techniques for Males to Give Pleasure

1) The Clamp
Stimulates the clit using the thumb, while using one or more fingers to stimulate the g-spot. A good technique when you are able to be in front of a woman. Most women prefer one to two fingers, although some women like a lot of pressure and three to four can be used as well.

2) The Two-fingered Clamp
Best used when a woman is on her knees or standing with her bottom outward. Her partner then uses this technique from behind her. The thumb stimulates the g-spot, and the fingers make a "V" around her clit.

The most effective stimulation is using rhythmic thrusting. These rhythmic movements create vibrations, which induce pleasure in the cervix and uterus as well as in the G-spot and vagina. When fingers are introduced into the vaginal opening, the initial pleasure i

Digg this

What Is The Clitoris And Where Is It?

It is located below the mons veneris on the anterior portion of the vulva. The inner vaginal lips, also called the labia minora when closed, tend to hide the clit, but it is interesting to note that those inner vaginal lips are attached to the underside of the clitoris and thus play an important role in the network of nerves, which transmit sexual stimulation.

The clitoral hood is formed by the connection of the inner vaginal lips. This small hood covers the clitoris in much the same manner as a foreskin covers a penis. When you pull the hood back you can see that the clit is USUALLY about the size of a pencil eraser, however the size does vary from woman to woman, much the same way penis size varies from man to man.

The clitoris is abundantly supplied with nerves. The part of the clitoris that you see is actually much like the head of a man's penis, and as a man has a shaft to his penis, a woman has a shaft to her clitoris. The shaft is located above the hood, and is more easily felt when a woman is aroused as it become more rigid as it fills with blood.

What Does It Feel Like?

Digg this

Why cant we legalize prostitution in India?

Its a controversial issue.
And we can't answer it directly considering India in account.

First of all, Indian culture never allows prostitution.
India with her over 5000 year old heritage could never see her women citizens being sold for money.

It is after the post LPG[Liberalization, Privatization, Globalization] period that such concepts and thoughts arouse.

Take the facts about unsafe sex and STDs, it is highly advisable.
But it is India..

Digg this

Hot Indian Models






Indian sexy models of Bollywood movies. Many Indian actress joined sexy modeling in showbiz world.

Digg this

Jennifer Aniston Bikini Pictures



Jennifer Aniston Bikini Pictures

Digg this

Fetish Question

Question:
How do you get rid of a sexual fetish if it disturbs your sex life and destroys your ability to have normal sex?
Answer
For most people, with most fetishes, the best way to deal with them is not to try and make them go away. It is to learn to accept them and to incorporate them into both your solitary and partnered sexual experiences. Fetishes are really just strong preferences. Most every human being has strong preferences in terms of their eroticism. It's just that people whose strong preferences are considered "normal" by society are not called fetishes. Those preferences that are considered "abnormal" or different by society are labeled fetishes. But, really, we all have our own preferences - aspects of our own erotic template that are unique to us. Try relaxing and talking to a friend or lover about this and see what happens. We tend to worry about these things more when we just keep it secret. So, think about talking this over with a trusted person. If you don't have someone you feel comfortable doing this with, I would suggest that you consult with a Clinical Sexologist or sex therapist. Even if you only see them for one session, they can help you get started on the path to increased self-understanding and self-acceptance. To find a professional, look up Kink Aware Professionals (KAP) on the NCSFreedom.org website. That will help you get started.

Digg this

Increase your sex appeal, groom your looks and look sexier

They say that there's a sex kitten simmering within every one of us. Well, if you feel a stab of envy every time you browse through a Cosmo or an Elle, it's about time you took that step -towards looking utterly sexy and sensuous. But assuming that you don't possess an hourglass figure, designer clothes or a million dollar smile, how can you unleash the sex kitten within you?
Well, looking sexy is a simpler feat than you might think.!

Love Your Body type.
You need to feel proud of your body type and make a note of your best features. Nice legs, a great bust line, slim shoulders, nice toes, attractive eyes? Figure it out, literally. Then capitalize on those assets.

The Sexy Ensemble.
So what if your hips stretch for miles? How about concentrating on your neckline, then and getting the sexiest set of plungers ever? Basically you need to get together a wardrobe that camouflages the bulges and accentuates all the curves, but most of all makes you feel comfortable.

Digg this

Cancer Risk Factors

The following are various types of cancer and their risk factors:

* Breast- Family history of breast cancer, obesity, late childbearing and childlessness
* Bladder- Smoking (nearly half of cases), hair dye - bladder cancer is more common in men than women
* Cervical- First intercourse at an early age, multiple sexual partners, smoking, history of genital herpes
* Colorectal- Being over 50 with colon polyps or ulcerative colitis, family history of these disorders or colon cancer, high-fat, low-fiber diet
* Leukemia- Exposure to radiation, benzene and other chemicals
* Lung- Smoking (83 percent of cases), exposure to asbestos, radiation and secondhand tobacco smoke
* Lymphoma- Being over 50, no other known risk factors
* Oral- Smoking, chewing tobacco and heavy alcohol use
* Pancreatic- Smoking, high-fat diet
* Prostate- Risk increases with age; more than 80 percent of cases occur after 65
* Skin- Fair skin, severe sunburn in childhood, frequent sun exposure, family history of skin cancer
* Uterine- Being post-menopausal with a history of infertility, ovulation failure or abnormal bleeding, also obesity, hypertension and diabetes

Digg this

Aspirin Linked to Reduced Lung Cancer Risk

Aspirin has already risen from the ranks of a mere pain reliever to become a highly valued heart attack and stroke prevention tool, and now researchers say preventing lung cancer may be added to its list of benefits.

Digg this

Does Sex Hurt the First Time?

The first time a woman has sex, it may or may not be painful.There may be psychological and physical reasons for it. If you are not sure about your partner or if you are not entirely convinced about the timing and place, then you may feel more pain than you should. If you and your partner truly care for one another and he is gentle and understanding and will go slowly, then there may be less discomfort. Physically, often, the first time a woman has sex there will be some bleeding as the hymen is torn. Using large amounts of a water-based lubricant may help. If you have been using tampons, that may have helped to stretch your hymen.

Digg this

Honeymoon Couple Hidden Cam



Best Honeymoon Spots from Hidden Cam

Digg this

Getting Your Bride in the Mood: The Secrets of Sensual Massage

Focus on the clitoris. Unless you’re Gene Simmons, you can’t possibly hope to stimulate her vagina with your tongue. Instead, your obvious target is the clitoris. Take it easy, since touching it directly can quickly overwhelm your bride – perhaps even causing her a little discomfort. Warm up to it by licking around it. Then move in all the way.

Get into a rhythm. As you stimulate her clitoris, pay attention to your own rhythm. Don’t attack it blindly. If you have slow music playing in the room, follow the beat. Otherwise, it can help to count in your head or silently roll over a familiar song. When she starts to respond, speed up to match her rhythm, without going too fast.

Follow her signals. Over time, you’ll learn to decode her moans and gasps. Whatever you do, maintain your pace. Don’t speed up just because she’s breathing more heavily – it’s your rhythm that’s getting her excited, not your speed.

Digg this

Menthol

experimentation is not abnormal as long as both you and your partner want to experiment with the same things. People commonly use ice (and ice cream) during oral sex to create that cool sensation. If you do want to give the menthol cough drop a shot, just make sure she lets you know if she is experiencing pleasure or discomfort. And beware of that sweet cough drop stickiness afterwards!

Digg this

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Hot cleavage Beauties



Hot Girls Cleavage

Digg this

"HOT ZONES" of womens breast

Women's breasts are sensitive around the tops, bottoms, and sides rather than dead on the nipples. Breast stimulation spurs the release of oxytocin, a hormone linked to social bonding. So not only will you turn her on, but the sex will be more intense because she'll feel more connected.

Digg this

How does pregnancy occur?

Not all pregnancies are welcome and all sexual partners are not always chosen with the kind of care that would be wise. But what needs to happen for a pregnancy to occur?

  • Sexual intercourse ending in ejaculation, or at least an opportunity for sperm to get to female ova.
  • No contraception or incorrectly used contraception.
  • Ovulation – the middle four days of a woman's 28-day cycle.

Digg this

Tips for Large Tool enjoyment

any women find very large Tool intimidating and scary. Some may even avoid intercourse for fear of being hurt. What can you do?

Consider these tips:

  • Be open with your partner. Ask your partner for feedback, every step of the way. Reassure your partner that you won't do anything they don't feel comfortable with.

· Foreplay: Spend enough time during foreplay to prepare your partner for penetration and to allow her to relax adequately.

· Lubrication: Use ample amounts of lubricant to ease penetration and to reduce friction.

· Select the right position: Women often feel they have greater control in the woman on top position. In this position she can guide the depth of penetration better. Side by side positions also allow for less forceful and more shallow penetration.

Digg this

Wife's secret desire for one-night-stand

Q. My wife and I have been married for three years and have one kid and we are expecting another child soon. Recently, I discovered that my wife has a secret desire to have one-night-stand with other men. She is sexually quite active but is a little shy because of which we do not have a very great sex life. Do you think encouraging her to have such a fling will improve our sex life. I really want my wife to have sex with other men. Please advice.

A. You say that your wife happens to be "little shy" but also happens to be a nymph! Your fantasy seems a bit too far-fetched. Don't even think of suggesting such a mis-adventure to your wife. You should really be mad to do such a thing and take a risk.

Editor's Note: Friends, I have seen many crazy people in my life but this guy takes the cake! Wanting his wife to have one night stand with other men? Must say his wife is very lucky. ;-) On a serious note, do you share his idea of having an extra-marital fling to spice up your sex life? Please post your thoughts in the comments.

Digg this

Secret Dietary Tips

Two older men are sitting on a park bench talking and one of them asks the other about his sex life. The man answers that he has an excellent sex life and is still very active.
The other man confesses that his sexual appetite has greatly diminished with old age so he asks the other man if he has any secrets for staying sexually vital.
"Well," answered the man, "I eat rye bread everyday. That is my secret. If you just eat rye bread, your sex life will improve dramatically."
The other man decides to follow this advice and finds a bakery nearby. He tells the clerk behind the counter that he wants all of the loaves of rye bread that they have in stock.
The clerk then asks the man, "do you want whole loaves or do you want us to slice them?"
The man looks puzzled and asks the clerk, "what is the difference?"
The clerk responds, "Well when it's sliced, it gets harder faster."
To which the man responded, "How come everyone knew about this but me?"

Digg this

Urinary Tract Infection in Men

Prevention

Most urinary tract infections in men cannot be prevented. Practicing safe sex by using condoms will help to prevent infections that are transmitted through sexual contact. In men with benign prostatic hypertrophy, cutting out caffeine and alcohol or taking certain prescription medications may help to improve urine flow and prevent the buildup of urine in the bladder, which increases the likelihood of infection.


Treatment

Doctors treat urinary tract infections with a variety of antibiotics. The results of laboratory tests on your urine can help your doctor pick the best antibiotic for your infection. In general, most uncomplicated lower tract infections will be eliminated completely by seven to 10 days of treatment. Once you finish taking the antibiotics, your doctor may ask for a repeat urine sample to check that bacteria are gone. If an upper tract infection or infection of the prostate is diagnosed, your doctor may prescribe antibiotics for three weeks or longer.

Men with severe upper tract infections may require hospital treatment and antibiotics given through an intravenous catheter (in a vein). This is especially true when nausea, vomiting and fever increase the risk of dehydration and prevent the use of oral antibiotics.

If you are an older man with an enlarged prostate causing an obstruction in your urine flow, treatment options include medications or prostate surgery.

Digg this

how sexualization influenced girls

The image “http://www.aboutkidshealth.ca/Shared/Media/BRAND-PHO/Girls_makeup_BRAND_PHO.jpg” cannot be displayed, because it contains errors.


Clothing stores sell thongs for seven- to ten-year-old, some with slogans like “wink, wink” or “eye candy.” In child beauty pageants, girls as young as five wear fake teeth, make-up, and hair extensions, and are encouraged to flirt with the audience by batting their false-eyelash-laden eyes. The 2005 Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show on prime time television featured models made up to resemble young girls dressed in sexy lingerie. Magazines, television, and the internet abound with images portraying girls and women as sexualized objects. There is growing evidence that this sex-saturated culture harms healthy psychological development among both boys and girls.

Sexualization is not to be confused with healthy sexuality, which is important for mental and physical health. Sexualization occurs when:

  • a person’s value comes only from his or her sexual appeal or behaviour
  • a person is held to a standard that equates physical attractiveness with being sexy
  • a person is sexually objectified – made into a thing for others’ sexual use
  • sexuality is inappropriately imposed upon a person

Digg this

MAKE FUN OF BOYS PRIVATE PARTS

  1. When a boy's disgusting private goes inside of a girl's shameful unmentionable, there is a serious risk of it breaking off and causing excruciating pain while it travels throughout your body like a giant trichinosis worm.

  2. Up until the moment in your wedding when he says "I do," a boy's privates sport a treacherous spine of jagged scales, which may or may not secrete acid and weapons-grade anthrax – for which, apparently, only Ann Coulter has developed the antibodies.

  3. God designed a boy's privates as part sword, part battering-ram, to joyously stab and hammer you with on the magical night you begin your life-long tethering to the man who'll liberate you from the drudgery of ever having to make your own decisions – except when to have a headache or give an "I don't like this" bite.

Digg this

What do Transsexual Women Want?

[Alex+and+Steffi+Pic+15+Newcastle.jpg]

R-E-S-P-E-C-T, for one thing, to be treated as people and as women, not as perverted oddities or sex toys. Comparing a transsexual to someone born male or female is insulting, whether you do it to her face, or behind her back in conversation with your barroom buddies. So is public speculation about "What they're like," especially if you've never even met one and all you know came from watching pornography. You wouldn't treat your boss or your mother like something to be conquered, used up and thrown away, would you?

Discretion is not just the better part of valor, it's common courtesy. If you've ever been publicly outed for being a gay man or bisexual guy, then you know how humiliating -- even dangerous -- it can be. For a transsexual female, it's worse. In transition, she has to build a whole new life, from her socks to her sex, including how she presents herself. It's hard to blend in without being spotted, And, especially in the early stages, the whole thing can be blown apart like a house of cards with one wrong word. So do unto others what you'd have done unto you.

Now we come to "commitment," the infamous "C-Word." This is another difference between men and women. Men tend to play the field, and many will sleep with whomever and whatever they can, whenever they can. The aim is to prove one's manhood by scoring as often as possible without getting caught.

Being the nurturing souls they are, women want something different. They want the emotional security of a stable, monogamous relationship with a man who will stick around for while; not one who vanishes away, sometime between when she falls asleep and wakes up alone, the next morning.

Digg this

Seduction tips for boys

http://www.therelationshipgym.com/interface/couple1.jpg


1. Get in the bath together: it helps to separate work from play and wakes up her nerve endings, too.

2. Set the scene: dim the lights, play some music she likes, change the sheets – hide the dirty laundry and your BlackBerry.

3. Kiss her how you used to on your early dates: put your hands in her hair, hold her face, and take your time.

4. As you undress her, (and DO undress her) tell her how much you love her body. Be specific! “And this is my favourite part . . .”

5. Don’t go straight for the boobs! That’s for teen boys and men who take their wives for granted.

6. If she has trouble being selfless in bed, blindfold her with your tie so she has no choice.

Digg this

THE MYTH ABOUT BOYS

Myth. Sex produces instant adulthood.

Facts. In their desire to become adults quickly, some adolescents believe that engaging in adult activities (sexual intercourse, smoking, drinking alcohol, driving, etc.) will make them adults. With sex, it leads to two bad effects. It may push teenagers into situations they do not want — romantic commitments, pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases. On the other hand, if teenagers feel these activities have actually made them fully mature, it may inhibit their growth and development in other areas.

Myth. Sex means love.

Facts. Young women are more likely to believe that love and sex go together. Teenagers may feel sexual advances indicate love and commitment and are very disappointed when this is not the case. Or they may feel that love (which is not necessary for sex) will be an inevitable outcome of having sexual intercourse. Young people often believe that if you have sex with someone, he or she will be more likely to love them. While it does happen at times, it more often leads to feelings of disappointment and possibly betrayal.

Myth. "No" means "Yes."

Facts. Many guys feel that they must take advantage of every sexual opportunity to prove their masculinity. In addition, they believe that most women who say "no" really mean "yes." As a result, "date rape" is very prevalent, though most cases go unreported.

In fear of offending the man, some women may actually smile while saying "no," giving him conflicting messages. Others find it extremely difficult to openly say "no" and wind up in passively squirming and retreating without saying anything. The most effective and assertive response to an unwanted sexual advance would be to say, "Although I like you, I definitely do not want to have sexual intercourse." This does not damage the fellow's ego, and it indicates her wishes clearly and firmly.

Myth. I can't get pregnant.

Facts. Typically because of guilt feelings about sex, many sexually active teenagers make no (or inadequate) attempts at contraception. This myth is based on the lack of factual information plus the use of denial (unconsciously refusing to see a stressful situation) as a defense against anxiety. As may occur with driving, drugs or pregnancy, many adolescents have an illusion of invulnerability. Although it may happen to others, "it won't happen to me." In contrast, some unconsciously want a pregnancy — as proof of maculinity or femininity, desire for adult status, revenge toward parents or a former lover, or a fantasy that a baby will fulfill their need to be loved.

Myth. Condoms allow no feelings.

Facts. Many sexually active teenagers are resistant to using condoms (rubbers) for birth control. This is primarily true for those who have never used condoms. The younger boys listen to the older boys, mimic their words, and come to believe that "real men" are not supposed to like condoms. The reality is that they detract somewhat from the man's physical stimulation, but not from the woman's. However, anything that is perceived psychologically as unpleasurable (including condoms) can reduce the satisfaction in any interaction. Even so, this relates more to expectations of the situation rather than the physical effects of the condom. As an added feature, the latex condom (used correctly) is the best protection against sexually transmitted diseases — including AIDS — outside of abstaining from sex.

Digg this

Color Effects on Girl Mood

Women are attracted to men wearing the color blue. And why wouldn't we be? Men who frequently wear blue are "stable, faithful, constant and always there." The blue guy is a fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship -- someone who's dependable, momogomous and can match his own clothes.

http://www.tuxpaint.org/gallery/antonis/Color_Smudges.png



Of all the colors, red is the most sensual. But, wear red with caution. "Red is the color of sex and power," Red adds an element of excitement and attracts two types of men - men interested in sex, and men attracted to powerful women. Sure, you'll probably have to fend off a lot of freaks, but you could also end up attracting a guy that isn't threatened by the fact that you make a bigger salary.

Digg this

How To Feel Sexy

Look at your self in the mirror and say "Hi gorgeous!"

If you can't bring yourself to do that because you feel too ugly, wrinkly, fat, unkempt take immediate action that will fix it. Brush your hair, apply red lipstick, put mascara on. Pinch your cheeks. Then look at yourself again, and say, "not so bad considering I've been ignoring you." Make a vow to love and take care of you - say it whilst you stare deeply into your eyes.

Smile at every body you meet. You'll get lots of smiles back.

Be friendly to every one even those people you don't like. The reaction you get from them will be priceless.

Flirt, don't worry about any thing. Flirting will create extra ordinary responses from men - it'll make you feel good. Flirting is a fun way of showing that you are playful and responsive. Men love it. The thing here is that when you're having a rapport you can feel good even if you think you're ugly, fat or what ever. If you just let the communication happen and stop worrying about what the other person is thinking about you. Have you ever considered that they may be worrying about what you think of them?

Lay off the coffee and sugary drinks.

These are passion killers - they lift you up briefly but you'll come plopping back down. When you're down it's difficult to communicate. And not only that - being down gives you all those unsexy thoughts like: why am I so fat?, why can't I be so...? Bla bla. Rather stay in one good feeling place then go from down to up and then down again.

Eat sexy food.

For me sexy food means food that is still in it's original form. Fresh fruit and vegetables. If you believe that fresh food is causing you stomach problems then find out which ones you should mix and match. I promise you real food beats any processed or canned food.

Chocolate bars, cakes and candies are bad for you but you know that already don't you? Chocolates are only sexy when they've been specially chosen by some one special and then gifted to you. It's sexy and fun to eat gifted chocolates especially together with the bearer of the gift. It's also a grand idea to gift some body with special pralines.

Check out your wardrobe.

Are you wearing any old thing? Wearing any old thing is fine if you feel good in it but if deep inside you that any old thing is making you feel not as good as you could be go change immediately. I'm always surprised that women save their special clothes for special occasions. Every minute you are still breathing and partaking of life is special. I for one don't have special clothes I love them all and wear them all. For gardening I wear my old variation of my once new clothes.

A good tip is to wear clothes that sit well and are comfortable. If you garments are uncomfortable you'll be self conscious. For example I don't wear mini skirts or dresses because when I sit down I find I'm pulling on them to try and cover up.

Wear shoes that you can master and feel good in. No use wearing high heels that you can't walk in or give you pain - it'll distract and make you conscious of your feet instead of allowing you to be a free spirit.

Digg this

Is it nessesory to learn the language of love

http://www.paintballtips.biz/bodybuilder-couple.jpg
Women love sex as much as men do, but what's sometimes missing is the self-knowledge, and of course a skilled partner who brings out the erotic best in himself and her. If you're unsure as to whether your lover is enjoying herself during sex, there is a need for more investigation. Communicate verbally and non-verbally; ask her what she wants you to do, carefully watch and listen to her responses to what you’re doing and don’t assume that what worked for your other girlfriends is going to work for her. Every woman (and man) has different tastes and won’t necessarily respond to the same touches, so try a few different things and don’t stick to a routine. Experiment, tease, tantalize, change positions. When you hear her moan, you’ll know you've hit just the right spot, so don't stop there.

Digg this

I want you in my arms

http://image.guardian.co.uk/sys-images/Arts/Arts_/Pictures/2007/03/05/bond460.jpg


Chances are, you had a sex dream this week. Fully eight percent of
our dreams involve sexual situations, according to a new study from
psychologists at the University of Montreal in Canada.

Interestingly, women have just as many sex dreams as men, with one
important difference: Men are far more likely to have fantasies about
sex with imaginary people, while women dream about current or past
sexual partners, as well as celebrities,

“Men used to report many more sex dreams, twice as many as women, and
we don’t find that difference anymore,” . “Either women are having them more, or
they’re more likely to report them. Either way, it’s interesting. “

Even though sex dreams are very common, psychologists haven’t paid
much attention to them. For this study, the team asked 109 women and
64 men ages 20 to 89, all of whom responded to an ad about the
research project, to keep a diary of their dreams for as long as one
month. The total number of dreams exceeded 3,500.

What do we dream about?

– The most common sex dream involved sexual intercourse, followed by
flirting, kissing, fantasies and masturbation.

– Four percent of sex dreams among men and women resulted in an
orgasm.

– 18 percent of women’s sex dreams involved unwanted sex, compared
with just five percent of men.

– Nine percent of sex dreams among women and five percent among men
involved fantasies about celebrities.

– Men were far more likely to dream about having sex with more than
one person.

– Four percent of women’s dreams featured a partner having an
orgasm. None of the men reported this dream.
if you dream about something, it probably
occupies your waking thoughts as well. “If the sex dreams tend to
involve unknown or fantasy characters, it is probably a reflection of
your waking state, that your desires and fantasies are with
strangers,”

Digg this