How do you know a man really loves you?

The eyes are the window of the soul. That's NO LIE!

* If you find him smiling at you when he doesn't think you're looking.
* If he holds your hand and doesn't matter where you are when doing so.
* If friends tease him about being attentive towards you and he's confident he'll smile and be proud of the fact.
* If he looks proud when he introduces you to his family and other friends.
* If he keeps dates with you or at least phones if he can't make a date.
* If he does sweet little things for you. It's the little things that count and not expensive gifts or expensive places that count.

Those are but a few things. If he loves you, you'll know!!!.

"HOT ZONES" of womens breast

Women's breasts are sensitive around the tops, bottoms, and sides rather than dead on the nipples. Breast stimulation spurs the release of oxytocin, a hormone linked to social bonding. So not only will you turn her on, but the sex will be more intense because she'll feel more connected.

Tips for Large Tool enjoyment

any women find very large Tool intimidating and scary. Some may even avoid intercourse for fear of being hurt. What can you do?

Consider these tips:

• Be open with your partner. Ask your partner for feedback, every step of the way. Reassure your partner that you won't do anything they don't feel comfortable with.

· Foreplay: Spend enough time during foreplay to prepare your partner for penetration and to allow her to relax adequately.

· Lubrication: Use ample amounts of lubricant to ease penetration and to reduce friction.

· Select the right position: Women often feel they have greater control in the woman on top position. In this position she can guide the depth of penetration better. Side by side positions also allow for less forceful and more shallow penetration.

Wife's secret desire for one-night-stand

Q. My wife and I have been married for three years and have one kid and we are expecting another child soon. Recently, I discovered that my wife has a secret desire to have one-night-stand with other men. She is sexually quite active but is a little shy because of which we do not have a very great sex life. Do you think encouraging her to have such a fling will improve our sex life. I really want my wife to have sex with other men. Please advice.

A. You say that your wife happens to be "little shy" but also happens to be a nymph! Your fantasy seems a bit too far-fetched. Don't even think of suggesting such a mis-adventure to your wife. You should really be mad to do such a thing and take a risk.

Editor's Note: Friends, I have seen many crazy people in my life but this guy takes the cake! Wanting his wife to have one night stand with other men? Must say his wife is very lucky. ;-) On a serious note, do you share his idea of having an extra-marital fling to spice up your sex life? Please post your thoughts in the comments.

Color Effects on Girl Mood

Women are attracted to men wearing the color blue. And why wouldn't we be? Men who frequently wear blue are "stable, faithful, constant and always there." The blue guy is a fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship -- someone who's dependable, momogomous and can match his own clothes.

Of all the colors, red is the most sensual. But, wear red with caution. "Red is the color of sex and power," Red adds an element of excitement and attracts two types of men - men interested in sex, and men attracted to powerful women. Sure, you'll probably have to fend off a lot of freaks, but you could also end up attracting a guy that isn't threatened by the fact that you make a bigger salary.

Is it nessesory to learn the language of love

Women love sex as much as men do, but what's sometimes missing is the self-knowledge, and of course a skilled partner who brings out the erotic best in himself and her. If you're unsure as to whether your lover is enjoying herself during sex, there is a need for more investigation. Communicate verbally and non-verbally; ask her what she wants you to do, carefully watch and listen to her responses to what you’re doing and don’t assume that what worked for your other girlfriends is going to work for her. Every woman (and man) has different tastes and won’t necessarily respond to the same touches, so try a few different things and don’t stick to a routine. Experiment, tease, tantalize, change positions. When you hear her moan, you’ll know you've hit just the right spot, so don't stop there.

I want you in my arms

Chances are, you had a sex dream this week. Fully eight percent of
our dreams involve sexual situations, according to a new study from
psychologists at the University of Montreal in Canada.

Interestingly, women have just as many sex dreams as men, with one
important difference: Men are far more likely to have fantasies about
sex with imaginary people, while women dream about current or past
sexual partners, as well as celebrities,

“Men used to report many more sex dreams, twice as many as women, and
we don’t find that difference anymore,” . “Either women are having them more, or
they’re more likely to report them. Either way, it’s interesting. “

Even though sex dreams are very common, psychologists haven’t paid
much attention to them. For this study, the team asked 109 women and
64 men ages 20 to 89, all of whom responded to an ad about the
research project, to keep a diary of their dreams for as long as one
month. The total number of dreams exceeded 3,500.

What do we dream about?

– The most common sex dream involved sexual intercourse, followed by
flirting, kissing, fantasies and masturbation.

– Four percent of sex dreams among men and women resulted in an
orgasm.

– 18 percent of women’s sex dreams involved unwanted sex, compared
with just five percent of men.

– Nine percent of sex dreams among women and five percent among men
involved fantasies about celebrities.

– Men were far more likely to dream about having sex with more than
one person.

– Four percent of women’s dreams featured a partner having an
orgasm. None of the men reported this dream.
if you dream about something, it probably
occupies your waking thoughts as well. “If the sex dreams tend to
involve unknown or fantasy characters, it is probably a reflection of
your waking state, that your desires and fantasies are with
strangers,”

Is she fulfill his wildest dreams?

Many men share in the same general sexual fantasies: three women in a hot tub, three women in your bed, three women enjoying each other shamelessly on a deserted beach where you just happen to be taking a stroll, and the list goes on.

Threesomes

This fantasy is often hard for a woman in a relationship to swallow: "So you want to invite another woman into bed with us, do you?" she says. “So I’m not sexy enough/talented enough/thin enough for you, huh?” she may think. Even imaginary play friends can be threatening for your female companion, so you really need to make sure that there is a good deal of mutual understanding and trust (and erotic adventurism) between you before you bring it up.

It can be fun to bring an imaginary woman (or man) into bed (i.e. telling a fantasy story involving up-close-and-personal details to turn you both on). But bringing a real person into your shared intimate zone poses some very real and dangerous problems. Even if she does agree, nut it out properly first -- it is highly likely, statistically speaking, to be followed by an ugly breakup.

Anal sex

Many men are denied anal sex by their female companions on some very legitimate grounds: It can be very painful, uncomfortable, messy, and did I mention painful? This doesn’t stop you from wanting it, obviously, so fantasy may well be your next best option. Anal sex is also much loved by many women, and it is on these grounds that she will probably be a wee bit curious; "If she can like it, then I should be able to too."

Anal sex is a fantasy she can easily fulfill -- if she chooses to. She is unlikely to be offended by you sharing a fantasy of this kind because rear entry is a well known and "common" sexual antic. It is no longer considered taboo, and therefore the only reasons she probably won’t do it are practical and/or imagined hygiene and comfort complications. Promises of plenty of lube and going slow and gentle will help (you may need to barter here, use what you can -- let her have access to your butt, perhaps a hot air balloon ride, a nice dinner at expensive restaurant or foot rubs for a week… you get the idea).

Watch her masturbate

Knowing that you would really enjoy watching her bring herself to orgasm gives her a great deal of power, and she would, of course, love to please you. But, revealing herself like that in front of you is a big step for any gal. If you want her to do this, then sharing your fantasy with her is an excellent way of "suggesting" she actually do it. A good method to start her off is to prompt her while you are actually having sex. It is easier if she is facing away from you and her clitoris needs stimulating -- take her hand and hold yours over it on her clitoris, and then she can set the pace and you follow suite.

After a while, take your hand away. She may or may not keep her hand there, but very gently insist it and be sure to show your extreme appreciation -- she won’t want to spoil your fun! This should develop into her feeling much more comfortable touching herself in front of you, and one day -- maybe -- she will give you the whole shebang. Don’t be forceful, and if she is showing signs and symptoms of being uneasy, don’t push it -- don’t even mention it again, because one day she might just decide to loosen up all by herself.

Watch her with someone else

This is an interesting one, and one she isn’t likely to understand, but neither will she feel threatened by it. It is something she can get her head around -- she is the one with someone else, not you -- and therefore she will probably be interested in exploring it further -- in your imagination, of course. This other person could be a man or a woman -- whatever takes your fancy -- and only involves complete and utter voyeurism.

This actually happening is unlikely unless you really, really, really want to do it, but even then she probably won’t ever agree. It is the sort of thing that may turn a man on rather than a woman, and for this simple fact it's probably not going to ring her bells to any significant degree. Unless you’re both into swinging or other "sharing" activities, watching your girlfriend getting screwed by someone else is highly unlikely to ever happen to you in your lifetime, unless you walk in on her by accident.