Fetish Question

Question:
How do you get rid of a sexual fetish if it disturbs your sex life and destroys your ability to have normal sex?
Answer
For most people, with most fetishes, the best way to deal with them is not to try and make them go away. It is to learn to accept them and to incorporate them into both your solitary and partnered sexual experiences. Fetishes are really just strong preferences. Most every human being has strong preferences in terms of their eroticism. It's just that people whose strong preferences are considered "normal" by society are not called fetishes. Those preferences that are considered "abnormal" or different by society are labeled fetishes. But, really, we all have our own preferences - aspects of our own erotic template that are unique to us. Try relaxing and talking to a friend or lover about this and see what happens. We tend to worry about these things more when we just keep it secret. So, think about talking this over with a trusted person. If you don't have someone you feel comfortable doing this with, I would suggest that you consult with a Clinical Sexologist or sex therapist. Even if you only see them for one session, they can help you get started on the path to increased self-understanding and self-acceptance. To find a professional, look up Kink Aware Professionals (KAP) on the NCSFreedom.org website. That will help you get started.

Increase your sex appeal, groom your looks and look sexier

They say that there's a sex kitten simmering within every one of us. Well, if you feel a stab of envy every time you browse through a Cosmo or an Elle, it's about time you took that step -towards looking utterly sexy and sensuous. But assuming that you don't possess an hourglass figure, designer clothes or a million dollar smile, how can you unleash the sex kitten within you?
Well, looking sexy is a simpler feat than you might think.!

Love Your Body type.
You need to feel proud of your body type and make a note of your best features. Nice legs, a great bust line, slim shoulders, nice toes, attractive eyes? Figure it out, literally. Then capitalize on those assets.

The Sexy Ensemble.
So what if your hips stretch for miles? How about concentrating on your neckline, then and getting the sexiest set of plungers ever? Basically you need to get together a wardrobe that camouflages the bulges and accentuates all the curves, but most of all makes you feel comfortable.

Menthol

experimentation is not abnormal as long as both you and your partner want to experiment with the same things. People commonly use ice (and ice cream) during oral sex to create that cool sensation. If you do want to give the menthol cough drop a shot, just make sure she lets you know if she is experiencing pleasure or discomfort. And beware of that sweet cough drop stickiness afterwards!

Wife's secret desire for one-night-stand

Q. My wife and I have been married for three years and have one kid and we are expecting another child soon. Recently, I discovered that my wife has a secret desire to have one-night-stand with other men. She is sexually quite active but is a little shy because of which we do not have a very great sex life. Do you think encouraging her to have such a fling will improve our sex life. I really want my wife to have sex with other men. Please advice.

A. You say that your wife happens to be "little shy" but also happens to be a nymph! Your fantasy seems a bit too far-fetched. Don't even think of suggesting such a mis-adventure to your wife. You should really be mad to do such a thing and take a risk.

Editor's Note: Friends, I have seen many crazy people in my life but this guy takes the cake! Wanting his wife to have one night stand with other men? Must say his wife is very lucky. ;-) On a serious note, do you share his idea of having an extra-marital fling to spice up your sex life? Please post your thoughts in the comments.